What makes us detached from loving ourselves?

It is a paradoxical behaviour indeed, nevertheless it is subtle that we are enforced to pursue this kind of exploitation since we have been manipulated by various aberrations to make us divergent from ourselves; however the major reason for this is that various people share and inculcate our pure minds with different futile inclinations that we claim as rightful information instead of giving attention to our own selves, therefore due to this behaviour we aren’t independent because we have been impressionable and distracted lately.. The fact of being naïve on ourselves has played the major part for the continuation of this disorder to exist and it is us who could prevent this from occurring indeed. As I do observe in society people aren’t willing to accept themselves but to expect something for themselves which is completely absurd...